St. Clare’s Hospital

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. . β€œIn 1981 I was living in Ohio and dating a man from New York City. Because of him, I became aware of a strange cancer striking gay men in New York and San Francisco. Unfortunately, in Ohio, no one was worried about AIDS because only people in NYC and San Francisco were at risk. . Four years later I moved to NYC. I met the Rev. Bernard Lynch who was ministering to those afflicted with AIDS. I ask him how I could help. What could a naive youth from Ohio know about such a massive Holocaust? I wasn't cut out for Act-Up and criticized for my lack of anger and outrage. I wasn't angry. I was sad. Terribly sad. I was sad for all the men dying alone in the hospitals. . Bernard directed me to St. Clare's hospital to volunteer. They wanted me to wear masks and gloves and footies but I couldn't. If I was going to hold you in my arms as you died, I was going to let you touch me, cough phlem on me and cry on my shoulder. From a Christ like point of of view, I couldnt do less than Christ himself. . Most men lasted two weeks tops. I hadn't lived in NYC long enough to make friends. My friends became short term and very deep with the men who were alone and dying. I met prostitutes who taught me compassion. I met IV drug users who taught me to be accepting. Every two weeks I lost my newest best friend. All of these men shared their most intimate secrets with me and, most of all, their love. . The numbers of men I held as they died is impossible to calculate but as my life continues, I remember the patients of St. Clare's Hospital. I remember how you were ostracized by friends and family. I remember how, as gay brothers, we loved one another unconditionally. . This is my tribute to those who were alone. They had no friends and no family. Just a 22 year old boy from Ohio learning life lessons I wish never existed. I miss all of you and I continue to remember you and love you.” β€” Cosgrove Norstadt . #whatisrememberedlives #theaidsmemorial #aidsmemorial #neverforget #endaids

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